A quiet check-in
Where are you now?
Rate each pillar from 1 to 10. This is not a scorecard. It is a way to notice what feels steady, what needs attention, and where you want to begin.
Choose how to begin
On your own or together
Each person grades themselves before seeing the other answers. Finish your turn, pass the device, then compare.
Your view
Your pillar wheel
Your wheel is a snapshot, not a verdict. Look for the places that would make the rest of life feel lighter.
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A place to start
Your personal plan
Compare with curiosity
Three places to begin a conversation
These are the pillars where your answers differ most. A gap is not a problem to win. It is something to understand.
Keep checking in, one pillar at a time.
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