Your spouse sent you this page, didn’t they?
That’s how most people arrive. Here are the questions they’re usually holding, answered straight.
- Is this basically marriage counseling?
- No. Counseling is for something broken. This is for something good that could be better. There’s no therapist, no diagnosis, and nobody is the problem. It’s a set of planning tools two people use, mostly once a year.
- We have a good marriage. Why do we need this?
- That’s exactly who it’s for. Good marriages drift because nobody is steering, not because anything is wrong. The Getaway is one night a year of steering.
- Is this really for guys, or is it something designed for women that husbands get dragged to?
- Curt built the men’s side because he wanted it for himself. Half the questions are about your health, your work, and what you’re for after work stops defining you. Nobody gets dragged. Read More for Men and decide.
- Is it going to be a lot of feelings talk?
- It’s a lot of writing things down, alone, and then comparing. The trips you want to take. The number you’d retire on. Whether the house still fits. It’s more spreadsheet than sofa.
- How much time does it take?
- One night away a year, and one check-in six months later. Most of the individual tools take an evening.
- What does it cost?
- About what you spent on dinner last Saturday. The exact price is being finalised; people on the list get the introductory price.
- Who is it not for?
- Singles looking for dating advice. Couples in acute crisis. Anyone who thinks “my partner is the problem, fix them.” And anyone who’s done. If you’re not done, you’re in the right place.
Be first when the Getaway opens.
One letter a month from Anna and Curt: what we’re working on in our own life after 50, and the tools as they’re ready. No noise.